Saturday, February 20, 2010

She Can Take It

If you have any strength, people seem to completely disregard that you might have feelings or needs. Natural considerations and efforts given freely to "regular people" are ignored. I feel as though people look at me and think "I don't have to be nice. She can take it." I believe I'd have to leave pools of fucking blood trailing behind me before anyone would notice I might need some attention.

*sigh* I'm tired. I'm bruised, battered, and wore the fuck out mentally and emotionally from trying to cushion every interaction I have and attempting to make everyone else feel warm and fuzzy. Logically I figure people give back what they get. No. It's not true. People are selfish and take and take and take. I smile through it. "You want more? What else can I do for you?" Then I crawl under the covers to curl up and hide.

Ya know I don't want or need a lot. Really. I'm not an emotionally greedy bitch. I've spent most of my entire adult life learning to live without. But fuck...a little kindness? A bit of consideration? A fraction of interest in something other than yourself? An small offer to help out without expecting anything in return?

I watch everyone scurry to make the gentle, weaker ones feel all cherished and cared for. They're reassured, cosseted, and sheltered, while I stand ignored in the brutal cold. I keep trying to figure out what I'm doing wrong. Why doesn't anyone believe I deserve a few of the little things?

If they saw the tears I keep hidden, would they try?
If they saw the pain I bury, would they care?
If they saw the hurt I brush away, would they reconsider?

Somehow I doubt it. My instincts tell me they'd secretly relish my weakness because it would help them feel superior and powerful. "Ha! That bitch finally falls."

Fuck. I just wish I could walk away from it all and let everyone else try to pick up all the pieces. But I don't have that luxury. I have to keep fighting. I have to play the game. And survive off the pieces of kindness I steal from others.

*sigh* It's been a long couple of weeks with few breaks. I know I'm wore the fuck out and need some hibernation time to recover, but I'm afraid if I shut down that I won't be able to open the doors again to anyone or anything.
-K.

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